MATONEO

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Esta semana, la imagen del niño Drayke Hardman, muerto sobre una cama, con sus padres y hermanas abrazándolo, recorrió el mundo y generó millones de reacciones en las redes sociales, donde todos se preguntaban qué pudo haber llevado a un menor de 12 años a decidir quitarse la vida. Porque eso hizo Drayke, intentó ahorcarse con el cordón de una de sus prendas de vestir y, tras agonizar por varias horas, murió ante la mirada impotente de sus padres que solo se hacían una pregunta: ¿qué llevó a nuestro hijo amado a tomar la decisión de no querer vivir más? La respuesta, dolorosa hasta los tuétanos, no fue otra que el matoneo que sufría Drayke en su colegio por parte de sus compañeros de clase.

Drayke, un niño que en casa siempre parecía estar bien, soportaba en su interior una historia de acoso por parte de sus compañeros, que ni sus padres ni profesores supieron advertir a tiempo. Ese matoneo diario, sistemático e imparable, ahogó tanto a Drayke, que incapaz de sobrellevarlo, creyó que la única forma de librarse de él era muriendo. Esta historia, profundamente dolorosa e incomprensible, es más común de lo que se cree. Nuestros hijos, sin que nos demos cuenta de ello, pueden estar atravesando una situación similar a la Drayke. Una situación que, sin embargo, callan por vergüenza, por el miedo al rechazo o, peor aún, al castigo por ‘dejársela montar’. Inmersos en nuestras ocupaciones diarias, pocas veces nos tomamos el tiempo de preguntarles a nuestros hijos cómo les está yendo en el colegio más allá del interés obvio por saber si sus calificaciones van bien.

En muchos de nuestros hogares, también hay que decirlo, hemos alimentado las conductas que, en el colegio, nuestros hijos replican para hacerles daño a sus compañeros. ‘No deje que nadie se la monte’; ‘ese compañero suyo es como raro, ¿será gay?’; ‘cuando yo estudiaba no había eso del ‘bullying’, todo lo resolvíamos a los puños’; ‘no se junte con ese muchacho que se ve que tiene problemas en la casa’; ‘usted tiene que sobresalir en todo, ser el mejor en todo, no importa qué hagan los demás’; ‘ese amigo suyo es como autista, no habla con nadie’; ‘¿su amigo es ‘emo’? ese, el que se viste raro’.

Todos estos comentarios hechos en la casa y replicados en el salón de clases, alimentan historias de matoneo que muchos niños soportan en el más absoluto silencio, ese mismo silencio que les carcome el alma y les atormenta la cabeza. Ese silencio que, en el momento menos esperado, se convierte en un ruido ensordecedor que hace imposible querer seguir viviendo. Ojalá, la próxima vez que converse con su hijo, tenga la suficiente entereza para preguntarle, no solo si está siendo víctima de matoneo en su colegio, sino, y esto es quizás más importante, si es él uno de los matoneadores de su salón. De su respuesta puede depender que mañana otro ‘Drayke’ sí logre salvarse.

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